I’m 18 and my parents just got divorced and my dad is stalking me with a GPS system.how can i stop him?
…:::princecess:::… asked:
my rents are going through a messy divorce…and im currently living with my father…even though it is a living hell…i’m 18 and just graduated from high school and i’m a good kid…i don’t go go out and drink or do drugs…but i am given freedom at all…for the summer i am driving my dads car as long as i buy gas…but he continues to call me a minumum of 15 times a day to ask where i am and what im doing even though i tell him where and when i go some where…i did tell him i was going shopping a few towns over when i actually left the state to go to my boyfriends house…he called and said i needed to come back in state and return the car beacause he had reported the car stolen in the town my boyfriend lives in…so he must a a gps tracking device on the car or phone…my boyfriend looked under tho hood and couldn;t find it…how do i find it and stop him…also he calls my friends and theier parents and grandapertns looking for me all the time at like 3 in the am can i stop him
in two months when i do leave for college, which i might add i am paying for myself, since my parents aren’t giving me a dime, i will be living completely on my own. i also have had two jobs since the age of fourteen…i do come home at a reasonable time…11 pm…and i do give him one check in call a night…but if i do move out and get my own cell phone plan and live at my bosses for the summer he can’t continue to harass me or track me with a gps device?
and the only thing my father is doing to support me is let me drive the car…i pay the phone bill, and my insurcance, the gas, my college education, he no longer buys food for the house, i buy all my own clothing, and i’m not some idiot teenager i know how hard it is making it on your own in the real world…there are so many things you need to account for when you budget your lifestyle.
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6 Responses to “I’m 18 and my parents just got divorced and my dad is stalking me with a GPS system.how can i stop him?”
Don’t accept things from him. Don’t drive his car, don’t let him pay for anything. Be independent, if you don’t want him to do this.
It is your dad’s car. You live in his house. He supports you. He has rules. You have to obey them. He has all the rights to set the standards for his household. If he wants to “stalk” you while you drive his car, he can do that.
If you do not like it, (you are an adult), move out, get a job, and support yourself.
give him the car back and that letshim know what he doing isent right or just talk to him or try to move in with your mother
You can get a job, get your own apartment and get your own car. As long as you wish to be an adult and still be supported by your parent, that parent can impose whatever conditions they wish and if you find them intolerable, you have the option of moving out and refusing his help.
As long as you are living in your father’s house, driving your father’s car, eating the food your father provides and generally being supported by your father, you abide by his rules. Why is he calling so many people looking for you at 3 am? Because you are not home where you belong or where you said you would be!
Do not lie to him! He is your father and respect him enough to tell the truth.
When you have a job that pays enough for you to get your own apartment, your own car & car insurance, your own school expenses, your own food, and medical insurance, and utilities, and phone, and everything else you need, you can lead an independent life. As long as you are a dependent, you are still a child. You certainly are acting like one. So knock it off and grow up. Act like a mature adult if you want to be considered one.
How about you get a job, pay for your own gas, return home at a decent hour, and quit lying to your dad. In essense- grow up. Being 18 does not make you an adult, behaving maturely and responsibly does.